What is Unprotected anal sex ?

Unprotected anal sex

Question:
I am a 17-year-old gay male in a completely monogamous relationship. What I would like to know is if there is any risk involved with having unprotected anal sex. We have both had sexual partners in the past with whom we used protection, and both of us are disease-free.

Answer:
Regardless of sexual orientation, many couples hit a stage in their relationship when they become eager to take their intimacy to a more intense level, so seek to do away with latex, and engage in unprotected sexual behaviour.

To be clear, safest sex is always protected, usually by using latex, including condoms, gloves and dental dams, during all oral, anal and vaginal love play. When you want to have unprotected sex, you need to be 110 percent sure that you and your partner are completely monogamous in sexual behaviour of all kinds. You and your partner should talk about this level of commitment, and the level of honesty and expectations you have, if for some reason, he or you do stray sexually. You both need to take your sexual health and relationship health seriously through open communication. You should also both be tested for any sexually transmitted infections (STIs) to verify both of your disease-free status. This is not to question your partner's integrity and trust, or yours, but rather to establish peace of mind, and optimal safety. Many people don't realise that many STIs are asymptomatic, so sometimes people may not even know they have something. Most sexual health clinics will recommend that couple engage in protected sex play for at least three months, even when in a disease-free, monogamous relationship. Once you have the medical all clear, though, and plenty of honest, open dialogue about your sexual relationship, then you can generally consider that a green light. If you have any doubts or questions, seek specific advice from your nearest sexual health GP or Family Planning clinic.